Discreet Adventures
If you’re married, or engaged, or otherwise attached but not completely fulfilled by your current relationship, then DiscreetAdventures.com may be a site you want to know about. Please refer to our Married Personals category of sites for more services that cater to married/attached online daters.
Discreet Adventures is just what the name implies. It is a personals site with thousands of profiles posted by men and women who, for as many reasons as there are profiles, feel compelled to seek friendship, companionship, romance, and sex outside their current relationships. Some have spouses who have lost interest, or have fallen ill and cannot meet their needs. Many, no doubt, have simply lost interest in their significant others, or are just looking for temporary adventure.
Whatever their reasons, Discreet Adventures has provided a place for them to seek what they need. Membership is absolutely free, and you can browse complete member profiles and photos, in your area or around the world, without upgrading to a paid membership. Yes, there are photos, but they are optional and can be publicly viewable or password protected. If they’re protected, anyone who wants to view your photo has to request permission, and receive the password from you.
Your privacy is always protected until you decide to reveal what you want, to whom you want. Discreet Adventures will never contact you by any means other than the email address you registered with, so be sure to use an address that only you have access to, like a Gmail or Hotmail account. They will never sell, rent, or otherwise allow the use of your contact information for any purpose.
You must be 21 years of age to post a profile. It must be reviewed by Discreet Adventures, censored if necessary, and then approved before it will appear online. You may not include any personal contact information in your publicly viewable ad. You may not use foul language, and if you post a photo, it may not be “x-rated.” You can remove or update your photo at any time. You can revise your profile as often as you wish, and you can temporarily suspend it, so that it cannot be viewed until you turn it on again.
As you browse or search through profiles, you can create “hotlists” and “favorites” and if you find someone intriguing, you can “send a kiss.” You can also see who has viewed your profile, added you to their favorites, or sent you a “kiss.” You can save your search criteria, so you don’t have to enter it more than once, and you can block users that you do not want to be contacted by. You can do all this without spending a nickel.
To use the more advanced features, however, like instant messaging, internal email, chat, or match finder, you will have to upgrade to a paid membership. Match finder is a free e-mail notification system featuring profiles of people who have recently joined Discreet Adventures, and who match your search criteria. You may turn match finder on and off, as you choose.
You should be aware that there are also more than a few single women and men at Discreet Adventures, some young, some less so, who make no bones about the fact that they are looking for a “benefactor” relationship. If this is what you’re seeking, eureka! If it’s not, then be cautious, as you would at any other online site.
Find discreet Married Personals in your area at DiscreetAdventures.com.
Last Reviewed: September 2010
Free Basic Membership: Yes, with many privileges others charge for.
Locations: Worldwide
Discussions: Anonymous internal email, IM, Chat, “Send a Kiss”
Sexual Orientations: Heterosexual, Gay, Lesbian
Site Highlights:
Personality Profile - Is relatively painless to complete. Must be approved.
Advanced Search- You may search by all the usual criteria, gender, location, smoker, drinker, married, and other profile characteristics.
Member Database - Seems large, although numbers are unavailable
Match Finder - Receive email when someone matching your criteria signs up.
From Discreet Adventures:
“The purpose of DiscreetAdventures.com is to provide an anonymous, discreet and safe way for attached women and men to find a secret love affair.
Personal ads are placed by real women and men from all over the world. They are here to meet other like-minded adults who are either unsatisfied with their current relationship, or just looking for a little extra excitement in their lives.”
From ValiantHearts.com:
“If you require a venue where you can seek out a discreet romantic relationship, while remaining anonymous in the search process, then Discreet Adventures seems tailor-made for you. They appear to have covered all the privacy and security bases, even down to posting password protected photos.
You can sign up, browse, search, and make contact in complete anonymity, and then reveal, or not reveal, yourself to the one or ones that strike your fancy. Or you can pull the plug, and your profile, if you don’t find anyone who interests you. And you can do it all for free, unless you decide to take the plunge. The water looks fine from here.”
Meet other Discreet Married Women and Men at DiscreetAdventures.com.
